“It is our choices that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.” Joanne Kathleen Rowling

Take the time to realize that no one on this earth is exactly the same, even twins vary dramatically. We develop our amazing uniqueness based on our collection of experiences in life and what we learn from them. So as individuals we have to accept that only we truly know what is best for us, our family, friends, and partners may offer advice to help guide us on our paths, but ultimately it is you and only who will make the final decision. Whether it’s to follow your heart and make your own mistakes, or make some one else’s mistakes; regardless the choice is ours. 

As you consciously strive to become the person you were meant to be, your outlook for life becomes much easier. Actually it would be more accurate to say that life is just as hard, but your capacity for handling it grows to the point where your perception and attitude make things easier. You’re stronger emotionally, spiritually, and mentally so the weight feels lighter. Take the time to really think about what it is that makes you happy and what choices or decisions you have to make to move forward in that direction and don’t forget to smile and laugh along the way.