You hurt me deeply, you win, I bow down to you; the champ! Cut right through me with precision, professional, like a surgeon’s hand. I trusted your words and in turn opened my heart, then you betrayed, it was your intentions from the start. I wanted to write something spiteful and hurt you like you hurt me, then I really thought about this pain that I was feeling, I decided I would not anyone to feel this type of way, so instead I will redirect my energy and create something positive from it, and in the end I win.
We all know what it feels like to be hurt, when others actions and words come from a spiteful place they cut deeper than the assailant will ever understand, it is at that moment we can decide to end the pain and learn from it, or retaliate and continue to fight senselessly. No matter how bad someone has hurt you, forgive them, do not waste precious energy by stooping to their level, control your hurt and anger and learn to appreciate it, and then use it to grow and move on with wisdom and compassion.
Words have the capacity to produce remarkable responses, they can be good or they can be bad, lack of awareness of how your words are being used or how those words generate reactions is reckless and unacceptable. You may not be able to control what is said or done to you, but you do have the control over how you react. Spiteful words produce and arouse hurtful emotions and feelings; a spiteful reaction has no other intention than to hurt its victim.
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