"We think that the point is to pass the test or to overcome the problem, but the truth is that things don't really get solved. They come together and they fall apart."— Pema Chödrön

Life will always be challenging, our goals should not be set on reaching a state of comfortableness. Life is ever changing, there is nothing you can do to control this, you can resist and create surroundings that illusion you to believe you are safe from change and create comfort zones that keep you safe in your nest, but the truth of the matter is; change is not mandatory in this life, but then again neither is survival. 

As humans we avoid change like the plague, as we grow up we do not learn of the importance of building skills that prepare us for life’s ever changing cycle; we grow attachments to people and things and monetary objects, but without embracing change itself we can never learn to create a deep composure within ourselves; for most this is very difficult to accept, and because we refuse this notion we create needless suffering.